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I have a lot of very distant cousins. They are so distant that I never met them, yet they are in my family tree. I have closer cousins that I do not hear from, and there are people who have left our family due to divorce. Roughly once a year, I search to see if any of these people have passed away, so I can update my tree, and visit the grave or crypt if possible. Among all the sources we use, the death notice (sometimes called “obituary”) is a common resource and relatively inexpensive. Today, more notices are posted …

Do you remember the lyrics, “Summertime and the living is easy?” When we were young, we didn’t realize just how easy we had it. We didn’t have to worry about jobs bills or mortgage payments. Summers in were spent going to the show at the State or Roseland theaters free passes from the merchants. Or playing ball on the Little League diamonds or in the school yards. Or going to the beach where the guys and gals would have a great time swimming together. And who could forget swimming at the parks? There was Palmer Park, with its 3-foot depth …

The 2025 Cannes Festival has concluded, leaving a buzz around the Italian biopic “Fuori,” directed by Mario Martone. The film, which premiered at the festival, delves into a pivotal period in the life of the late Italian writer and actress Goliarda Sapienza. “Fuori” recounts Sapienza’s brief incarceration at Rome’s Rebibbia prison in 1980 for stealing jewelry after falling on hard times. The film speaks to her life following her release from prison, focusing on her friendship with two young women, including Roberta, a habitual criminal and political activist. Through this bond, Sapienza experiences a personal rebirth and resumes writing, which …

My great-uncle Tony (we called him Zi’ Toni) had little use for fripperies of any kind. After losing all his teeth, he never bothered getting dentures, but his hardened gums attacked all foods with impunity, including steak and hot cherry peppers. I remember once he reached down into his big jar of peppers and gave me one to bite into as a joke. After failing to put out the fire in my mouth with a glass of water and chunks of bread, I had to resort to scraping the inside of my cheek with a wet dishrag. Always decked out …

  Italy: the land of Lamborghinis, espresso, romance and, yes, celebrity weddings. From George Clooney’s Venetian fairytale to Jeff Bezos’s anticipated Venetian extravaganza this summer, Italy remains a top choice for couples looking to add a touch of elegance and “la dolce vita” to their vows. But before you start imagining yourself cruising the Grand Canal in matrimonial bliss, there’s some serious Italian bureaucracy you’ll need to navigate. Here’s are some essential legal basic for Italian Americans dreaming of the perfect Italian wedding that’s both legally valid and wonderfully Instagrammable. What kind of wedding are we talking about? Italy offers …

The Modal Verb Phrase “Supposed to” Meaning and Uses In last January’s blog, we discussed how to use dovere to express the meaning behind the English modal verb “should” in Italian.  The focus of this blog will be the English modal verb phrase “supposed to,” which conveys a similar meaning to “should,” but has different overtones and is used in a slightly different way. In Italian, the verb dovere,  with its official translation of “must/to have to” will be recruited to express the meanings of “duty” and “obligation” that come into play with “supposed to.”  Of course, dovere will be conjugated …

In the shadow of the church where I was baptized, the defunct Our Lady of Pity on East 151 Street in the South Bronx, squatted the residence and professional office of Pasquale DiCarlo, MD, the general practitioner who had delivered me. Since old Dr. DiCarlo didn’t subscribe to newfangled notions, he never insisted on appointments for visits. Besides, many of his patients were Italian immigrants who hadn’t yet acquired a phone. On the shingle outside his office he might well have inscribed the motto, “Walk right in, sit right down.” And sit we did, my mother and I, perched for …

May has always been a special month for St. Anthony graduates. I recall when I began writing Petals from Roseland many years ago that my May column struck a chord. The column brought back food memories for many St .Anthony’s parishioners so I’m rerunning it here today. I asked a few St Anthony’s girls for their memories of the May crowning and all these years later, the event still holds a special place in their hearts. Each recounted the lifelong impression the May Crowning had on them. They also mentioned how their memories have been triggered throughout the years by …

In her 2023 documentary “We Are Art Through the Eyes of Annalaura,” Naples-based multimedia artist and filmmaker Annalaura di Luggo embarks on a creative journey to construct an interactive multimedia art installation in the shape of a giant eye. Di Luggo’s project is not just about art; it also tells the stories of four young individuals who have overcome personal challenges. These young people have found a path out of darkness, reclaimed their self-esteem, and discovered new value in life. She explains that the name of the multimedia installation — Occulus-Spei — was inspired by the Latin words “Colloquium,” which …

Many readers of Fra Noi have ancestors who left Italy generations ago in search of better opportunities, making this topic especially relevant. For those whose families emigrated long before World War II, the connection to Italy may feel more like a matter of heritage than daily life. Yet, despite the distance, the thread of Italian descent remains a powerful symbol of identity and pride with many of our U.S. clients seeking our assistance in citizenship recognition. However, with ongoing global migration and shifting perspectives on citizenship, it seems that Italy is beginning to implement stricter rules regarding the recognition of …